MEDITATION

January 28, 2009 17:38 by Admin
By Rajendra Sharma

By being clear about confusion, you become clear of confusion. You cannot abandon what you do not know. To go beyond yourself, you should know yourself. To know yourself, means you come to know all that you are not.

By knowing what you are not, you are free of it. You remain in your natural state. It happens spontaneously and Effortlessly.

You discover that there is nothing to discover. You are what you are and that is all.

Liberation is of the self from the self – from its self-imposed false ideas.

The Self sustains itself in thinking that it is the doer and the experiencer. Drop the Illusion.

Even Witnessing is not your real nature – because there must be something or nothing to witness for the meditator. The duality still exists.

The Concept of Fullness and Emptiness are just Concepts. Every definition is a concept. One must be careful before starting a journey  to attain bliss
Or any other definitions. All definitions are limited.

The False self is still false whether it is Full or Empty or in expansion or contraction mode.

The falsity of taking a journey has to be seen. Journey involves desire, a goal. It needs time. It needs a discipline to reach a goal. There is a hidden belief that after the journey one will be improved, more perfect. The seekers attention is on the goal, not on himself, without knowing himself.

Before we understand Meditation – let us see what it is not.

It is not a self-centered activity, one does to find peace, relax his tensions, try to improve oneself, seek a profound experience, want powers, search a way to end his turmoil.

Various methods to quit the cycle of birth and death, seek to become immortal, blissful, secured, liberated and much more is not meditation.

Any more definitions a person can find  about meditation – it is not that.

Whatever we know about meditation – it is not.

No journey is possible – No activity of the mind is possible.

All activity  in the name of Meditation is a self-centered activity. It strengthens the False Self. Drop it.

Silence which has not been invited, induced, sought after. It has come about naturally by understanding what one is not. In this there is no motive which has brought Silence. If there is any shadow or suspicion of motive then that silence is directed and deliberate, so it is no silence at all. It is Innocent, not put together by effort.

Silence has been usually understood as absence of Sound, actually it is the absence of the false self.

In this state there is a possibility that ones true self reveals itself. It is this truth that liberates, not our effort to be free. 

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Benefits of Laziness

January 1, 2009 16:39 by Admin

By Rajendra Sharma

 

Laziness is often confused with words like idle, sluggish, lethargy, inertia, inactivity etc. Surrounded by these words, we often miss the richness, leisure and take it easy attitude of Laziness.

Once laziness is understood in its right context, we can benefit from it immensely and live a comfortable life. Following details describe a different lifestyle.

A Lazy person is a healthy person. The very thought of going to the pathology lab for blood tests, urine tests, ECG etc, going to doctors, hospitals, alternate therapies etc sends shivers up his spine. Hence he decides to remain healthy. Does that mean he will join a gym or aerobics. No way. Hence he searches out a lazy way of remaining healthy.

It is like, when he plays cricket – he chooses spin bowling over fast bowling. No wonder India has always had good spin bowlers. When Batting, he chooses to hit more fours and sixes then running like crazy to steal those cheeky singles.

Searching a lazy way of remaining healthy he finds that a morning brisk walk and a life of less stress is enough to remain healthy. Anything more is always better, but hey why bother.

Laziness also keeps him away habits of Smoking, drinking and drugs. He does not understand the stress filled lifestyle, then spend the hard earned money on smoking, drinking, entertainment etc, still spend more money to doctors to remove cholesterol, high blood pressure, invite diabetes etc. So Laziness bypasses this whole cycle. He takes it easy and spends his time more on planning for traveling for Leisure and to be with Nature.

The Lazy person plans for an early retirement, and this makes him work hard at his profession. He will pick up work which is best suited to his nature – aim for excellence and gets rewarded appropriately. The whole game of Name and Fame, coming ahead of others, power play, politics, competition, leg pulling etc is not interesting to him. Who has the time and energy for all this, when you can enjoy your time with your friends and family in a farm house.

Being Lazy does not mean taking shortcuts. It means walking slowly on your path, observing, enjoying the journey, and having lots of patience – because the journey can be long. If one is too stressed up about reaching your goal then you miss the leisure of walking and enjoying. Upon reaching your goal, the active person will not stop and enjoy – but will setup his next goal. The Lazy person will search for a shade under a tree to relax when he reaches his goal. There are many Lawns, gardens with beautiful flowers created by active person – but they never find time to sit in them.

The Lazy person always comes on time. Never inclined to rush, he plans his travel to avoid traffic, starts early and most often comes before time.

A Lazy person is often accused of being a day dreamer, of having the ability to achieve much more, but not using it to its full potential, not participating in all the formalities, rituals of the society etc – but hey – WHO CARES..


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THE SEARCH

November 18, 2008 18:12 by Admin

By Rajendra Sharma

All the outward journeys, struggles, desires, motivations usually have a common objective and that is, “Happiness”. We normally search ways to avoid pain and go towards happiness. The inner search is the search for “Truth”. 

This search for truth is quite abstract for many seekers. When confronted with the question – What exactly are you searching ? – the answers are usually vague. Beneath the search for truth or Enlightenment are we seeking some profound experience, something mystical. Are we expecting that the supreme source in whatever image we have imagined it, will present itself before us.

Are we seeking some powers or Siddhis? Are we searching for happiness or self fulfillment? Do we want to reach a state in which we will not be disturbed by the constant changes happening in the outside world? Do we want a state where the pain and sorrow will not touch us and we shall be in a state of permanent bliss?

Are we in search of freedom – freedom from the cycle of birth and death? Are we in search of Heaven and are performing good deeds to escape the burning fires of Hell?

It is possible that we may want everything mentioned above. Are we using various techniques of Meditation as a means to achieve our inner goals? The dimension of Spirituality is usually filled with the seeking.

The Inward seeking usually starts as a reaction. Some outward dissatisfaction, not finding the purpose of life, seeking outward but not arriving, sorrow, disillusioned by whatever is happing in the outside ugly, corrupt world, and much more.

In the Inward journey the seeker seeks  answers to his questions. He follows various systems or school of thoughts for his search. This Second phase of his life is very important, the Inward journey.  Slowly this phase of his life starts to create its own sorrow.

Here also he also seems like arriving, but never arrives. The Silence he seeks is temporary. The noise of his mind always overpowers him. He finds himself to be weak to follow the strict discipline prescribed. He is disintegrated. Many desires pushing and pulling him in various directions. The Outer World seems like an enemy putting obstacles in his inward journey. A separate world is created, the world of ashrams, retreats, hills, visits to holy places and Gurus, vows, disciplines and much more. The Inner world and the outer world creates its own conflicts and the seeker is again caught in it. The Inner World has its own sorrow.

His Inward goals are abstract. But somehow this Inward journey also gives him great satisfaction and fulfillment. He feels himself superior to all the other beings who are still running after outward goals. He feels that they are foolish trying to find happiness in the impermanent. He is wise, he is  looking for something Eternal. He has read that the real wealth lies within and not without. The greed is activated to find the real wealth.

Somewhere a more Subtle Ego gets superimposed on his already powerful Ego. Now he not only a worldly man but also a religious or a spiritual man. He is kind, and ready to help others and so on. His work becomes the source of his pride. He gets respect from the Society, but it seems empty.

He may perform rituals, follow various beliefs, go through the routine of various meditations. But somehow the fulfillment escapes him. The mind has this power to come back again and again in different forms. He experiences Silence and Peace but it is only temporary. Despair and sorrow once again engulfs him. Previously there was only the outward sorrow, now the inward sorrow also gets added to it.

He keeps on blaming others for his sorrow, depression. The reason, the fault is always the other.

Many people end their life as a traveler on their outward journey, many die as seekers in their Inward journey. Few move further while alive.

When one has seen both, the Inward  and the Outward and understood the limitations and problems of both the worlds, a time comes in his life when he is not moving in any direction. Both the journeys seems futile to him, Old Age is catching up and death seems near.

It is possible that in these moments of non-movement, when he is just existing without any hope of the future, the past has dropped. He is just sitting without doing anything. It is possible that a leap in understanding happens. He already had all the knowledge available for his Inward journey but it has not helped. Existing Knowledge can take us only to a particular level and then we move in circles. To come out of the circle there has to be a leap else we follow the old patterns of the circle.
 
The New Insight changes the whole ball game. He had always assumed that  the Search will surely lead him somewhere, now he starts questioning the Seeker. Who is this Seeker, which is Searching.  This Question changes the whole picture. For the first time the Seeker looks at himself.

The Search for truth now takes a new turn.  Now the Search for truth is - trying to find out the truth about his own self . But why will one spend time trying to find out the truth about one own self when one already knows about it. Do we know ourselves or we assume it.

When one asks a question – What do I think about myself – the usual answer that comes back is that I am a person who is sensitive, clever ,  intelligent, well read, moral, artistic, ready to help others etc. One usually defines oneself by ones Occupation. But if I dig a little deeper I find that I am ambitious – sometimes brutal.

I am not fulfilled yet. I have many faces which keep on changing depending on external pressures. I am not integrated – I tell one thing and do exactly opposite of it. I am tired of all the disintegration, deterioration within and without. I am caught in my own commitments, activities, and yearn for fame and recognition. Me and my money, Me and my property, Me and my country and my comforting Gods. I always want to be the center of my own creation and want attention all the time.

This is the truth about myself which is living, changing, moving. I can see it directly without any middleman.

Human beings have tried various practices, methods, meditations to be free of this center called self which causes so much misery and confusion. But like a shadow it is never captured. It slips through the fingers. Sometimes it is strengthened or becomes weak according to the circumstances.

We neither know our greatness nor our aim. We ask for freedom but need to live in bondage. We need darkness to see some light. We need some grief to feel a little bliss. We need death to know a greater life. Our life is a Hide and seek.  Man seeks himself and from himself he runs. He always builds but finds no constant ground.

He always journeys but nowhere he arrives. He can guide the world, himself he cannot guide. He would save his soul, his life he cannot save. The light his soul had brought, his mind has lost. All he learned is soon in doubt.

He fabricates signs of the Real in Ignorance. He is compelled to be what he is not. He is tied to matter with a thousand bonds. The dead past is his background and support.

The freedom from the False self is the true function of man. With the discovery of his Real self, the Search Ends.


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Fresh memories of the past

October 10, 2008 17:48 by Admin

I am not a writer.

Yesterday, Mr. Gerry (Gerald D'Cunha), asked me to go through the articles on The Dawn Club Blog by several contributors and post my comments.
He, also, asked me to go through his personal blog (geralddcunha@blogspot.com).
He further urged me to share my own life-related experiences on the blog. "Naresh, we all have our own stories to share; let's not hesitate from sharing them." His persuation was contagious. So, after I went through all the articles, I sat down to  type my  maiden piece. Hope it deserves a place there. 

Dear sir, reading all those articles was a treat. ...

I was, actually, trying to comprehend them. But, I got lost in my own world.
I went  back to my college days, the years in which there were no questions put forth to us.
We had the freedom and the will to do things our own way. 
Sometimes, on  many occassions, I still feel that I lack maturity and intelligence to take simple decisions.

Sir, I thank you for the simple pleasures of life that I have experienced with you around.
But, I miss the world in which we had no instructions to follow, no sign boards to read; I miss  the world of harmless people.

Now a days,  I travel by public transport. The buses and trains are always crowded.
I wonder, when I will see them empty, so that I can board in one of them  and make a visit to my past.
The past, when  we had no seatbelts, no airbags ...
The past when  we loved to sit on the  the last seat, (that's the other side of me). or died to in the the back of a  truck.
The past when cycling was like a breath of fresh air...
with no safety helmets, knee pads or elbow pads,
with plenty of cardboards between spokes to make it sound like a motorbike ...

When thirsty, we only drank tap water, yes, even on the roadsides ...
the bottled water was still a mystery!
We kept ourselves busy collecting bits and pieces,
so that we could build all sort of things ...
And, we were fearless on our bikes
even when the brakes failed while going down the road ...
We were showing off how tough we were, by how high we could climb trees and then jumping down from there... It was great fun...
We could stay out to play for hours,
as long as we got back before dark, in time for dinner ...
We walked to school, or rode our bicyles.
We had no mobile phones, no e-mails, no internets, no messengers,
no socialising sites;
but, we always managed to find each other... How? No one knows!

We lost teeth, broke arms and legs, we got cuts and bruises and bloody noses... yet, nobody complained as we had much fun;
 it wasn't anybody's fault, only ours.
We ate everything in sight: cakes, bread, chocolates, icecreams, ice candy's , sweet sugary drinks,

Yet, we stayed skinny by fooling around.
And, if one of us was lucky to find a cola bottle, we all had a swag from it.
And, guess what'? Nobody picked up any germs!

We did not have Play Stations, MP3, Nintendo's I-Pods, video games, 99-cable- TV channels, DVD's Home cinema, Mobile phones, Home P.C.'s, Laptops, Chat -rooms, Internet etc ... But, we were happy and had loads of fun  all around;
because, we had true friends. We called our friends to come out to play, never rang the doorbell, just went around the back yard...

We loved being let loose in the big bad world ...
without bodyguards or sign of cautions all around.
We played cricket and soccer as seasons changed.

When we failed our exams, we were given a second chance by simply repeating the same class ...without visiting the psychiatrists, psychologists or counselor etc.
We had the required freedom and equal share of responsibilities;
we had our own share of success and disappointments ...
Most of all, we learned to respect others, particularly our elders.

Sir, this  was  our life. But, no regrets, ever.
    
I am married. I have a very understanding wife, with two beautiful daughters.
I give them as much time as I can and spend my free time in understanding different roles that one has to play everyday.
Very recently, I took up a challenge from Sangeeta, my wife, to learn cooking and help when she is busy making the  kids study.

I look forward to have good health, and,  if time permits , I will pursue some of my long-cherished hobbies, such as hair-cutting and canvas-painting, which, I feel, will make me fullfill my deepest passions in life... my core nature.
 
Sir, it is a long article, hope you have enjoyed it as much as I have enjoyed typing down. (For  the first time)
 
Do take care and please pass on my message to your loved ones to .....

May we all flow with our core nature!
 
Thanks for this opporturnity.

Regards,

Naresh Kalani


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Our Readiness

October 5, 2008 13:52 by Admin

How often we read a book, over and over again ... and, yet, miss the point!

Ever since I recieved the copy of The Dawn Club book -- 'VAACHAS CHAME', I must have read it at least four times. I had really liked it; but, never did it make as much sense as it made to me yesterday.

I had gone to face an interview, yesterday. I am, essentially, a shy and nervous person. I have been making every affort to over come my shyness and build my self-confidence ... by reading books, attending Workshops, talking to supporting people and so on. Yet, my basic traits have stayed in me.

So, in spite of my home work, I came back from the interview, disappointed and crest-fallen.

At home, I picked the book -- 'VAACHAS CHAME', just to burry in it my anguish. And, lo!

It was making a different sense to me. I was reading it with my new eyes ... and, I was able to see a new hope.

Sometimes, anguish and pain are the mediums through which God helps us to learn and grow ... That's the way He toughens us ... prepares us for 'greater' things.

I am sure, my shyness has something 'nice' in store for me. I realised it last night, when I was reading 'VAACHAS CHAME'.

-- Vikram Nagarajan


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